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…, the work balance shifts, and sometimes you’re left with a 70/30 or a 100/0 split,” explains Ray. “Being married isn’t about having an equal workload. It’s about being willing to pick up the slack when your partner needs you without any resentment.”

The people you spend the most time with shape who you are. They determine what conversations dominate your attention. They affect to which attitudes and behaviors you are regularly exposed. Eventually you start to think like they think and behave like they behave.

…iled and said, “See, you can think of lots of ways where data might hurt.” With that, he introduced us to Campbell’s Law. Formulated in 1976 by social psychologist Donald Campbell, it reads, “The more any quantitative social indicator is used for social decision-making, the more subject it will be to corruption pressures and the more apt it will be to distort and corrupt the social processes it is intended to monitor.” Put simply: “When a measure becomes a target, it ceases to be a good measure.”