Tell me Alexander have you had any children personally. Like giving birth? Because I have had 5 of the little darlings and what Danielle says makes a whole lot of sense. Every nurse a child and have an organism? Yep, without the hubby anywhere near it happens. Could it be that it could happen because of oxytocin? The human body is a vast mostly unknown complex machine. Try living in a woman’s body after having given birth and you just might be surprised. Then if you have a wife that has had a child recently and you haven’t had enough sex maybe you should follow Danielle’s advise and see if it helps. Just helping out might get you “points.”