Father’s Day and the Plight of the African Boy [The Blunt, Bare and, Bold Reality]

A Call to All Fathers This Father’s Day and Forward

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13 min readJun 13, 2023
Sole for African Child volunteers at a drive to fit shoes to African children
Volunteers and partners join a Sole for African Child drive to fit shoes to African children

Father’s Day is a time to celebrate the significant role that fathers play in our lives, but it is also an opportunity to shed light on the untold stories of the African boy’s plight.

In this write up, we highlight 9 heartrending issues that illuminate the challenges faced by African boys and the vital role fathers play in their lives. Join us as we delve into the depths of their struggles, triumphs, and the urgent need for support and change.

The Story of Father’s Day: A Celebration of Paternal Love

Father’s Day originated as a way to honor the love, guidance, and sacrifices made by fathers around the world. It is a time to express gratitude and celebrate the positive impact that fathers have on their children’s lives.

Unveiling the Plight of the African Boy

Behind the façade of celebration, we must confront the stark reality faced by African boys. Ever explored the challenges they encounter and the adversity they navigate in their daily lives?

School boys attending a mentorship program by Sole for African Child in Kilifi County
School boys attending a mentorship program in Kilifi County

African boys encounter unique challenges that shape their lives and define their futures. From education and healthcare disparities to cultural and societal expectations, their reality is often marked by adversity. In this listicle, we delve into the stark realities faced by African boys, backed by factual evidence and verifiable sources. Brace yourself for an eye-opening journey as we shed light on their struggles and highlight the need for support and change.

  1. Limited Access to Education: According to UNESCO’s Education for All Global Monitoring Report, an estimated 30 million primary school-aged children in Africa are out of school, with boys being more likely to be affected than girls.
  2. High Rates of Child Labor: Africa has the highest prevalence of child labor globally, with boys engaged in hazardous work such as mining, agriculture, and street vending. Approximately 72 million children are engaged in various forms of labor. (Source: International Labour Organization.
  3. Health and Sanitation Challenges: Did you know that boys under the age of five are more likely to suffer from malnutrition compared to girls, with an estimated 16.5% of boys experiencing stunted growth due to chronic malnutrition (World Health Organization). African boys face higher risks of malnutrition, infectious diseases, and inadequate access to clean water and sanitation facilities.
  4. Alarming Rates of Violence and Exploitation: Many African boys fall victim to various forms of violence, including physical abuse, sexual exploitation, and recruitment into armed conflicts. It is estimated that around 70% of children involved in armed conflicts in Africa are boys.(Source: UNICEF — State of the World’s Children Report)
  5. Impact of Cultural Expectations: Traditional gender roles and societal expectations place immense pressure on African boys to conform to certain norms and responsibilities, limiting their freedom of self-expression and personal development. (Source: Plan International and African Journal of Reproductive Health)
  6. Disproportionate Representation in Juvenile Justice Systems: African boys are overrepresented in juvenile justice systems, often due to factors such as poverty, lack of access to education, and systemic biases. (Source: African Commission on Human and Peoples’ Rights). According to a report by the African Child Policy Forum (ACPF), in some countries, boys make up more than 90% of the juvenile justice population.
  7. Challenges Faced by Albinos: The World Health Organization estimates that around 1 in 1,400 people in Sub-Saharan Africa are born with albinism, making it the highest prevalence of albinism in the world. However, due to the discrimination and violence they face, their life expectancy is significantly lower compared to the general population. Albinos in Africa face discrimination, stigmatization, and physical attacks due to deeply rooted cultural beliefs and superstitions. (Source: United Nations — Office of the High Commissioner for Human Rights)
Albinism Society of Kenya Volunteers

The arrant reality faced by African boys cannot be ignored. These facts shed light on the challenges they encounter in their daily lives, emphasizing the urgent need for support, awareness, and change. By understanding and addressing these issues, we can work towards creating a more equitable and inclusive future for African boys, where their rights, well-being, and aspirations are safeguarded.

Together, let us strive to empower African boys to overcome obstacles and unlock their full potential.

The Essential Role of Fathers in the African Family

In the African context, fathers hold a crucial position within the family structure. They provide guidance, support, and a sense of stability that is vital for a child’s development.

Discovering the unique roles fathers play and the impact they have on shaping their children’s lives is a profound journey that highlights the importance of fatherhood in a child’s development and overall well-being. Fathers play a crucial role in shaping their children’s lives through their presence, guidance, and influence.

Here are some key aspects highlighting the significant impact fathers have on their children in Africa.

“Any man can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a dad.” — Anne Geddes

1. Nurturing Emotional Development
Fathers play a crucial role in nurturing their children’s emotional well-being. They provide love, support, and guidance, creating a sense of security and stability. Fathers in Africa often act as pillars of strength, offering emotional support and teaching their children valuable life lessons.

“A father is someone you look up to no matter how tall you grow.” — Unknown

2. Instilling Cultural Values and Traditions
Fathers in Africa are responsible for passing down cultural values, traditions, and norms to their children. They serve as important cultural and moral guides, teaching respect, discipline, and the importance of community. Through storytelling, rituals, and shared experiences, fathers help their children develop a strong sense of identity and cultural pride.

“The greatest mark of a father is how he treats his children when no one is looking.” — Dan Pearce

3. Providing Financial Support and Security
In many African households, fathers are the primary breadwinners, ensuring the financial stability of their families. They work diligently to provide for their children’s basic needs, education, healthcare, and overall well-being. This financial support contributes significantly to their children’s development and future opportunities.

“A father’s love is the foundation for his children’s future.” — Simon Sinek

4. Modeling Positive Behavior
Fathers serve as role models for their children, demonstrating positive behavior and values through their actions. By exhibiting qualities such as responsibility, honesty, integrity, responsibility and resilience, they shape their children’s moral compass and guide them towards becoming responsible and upright individuals. Through their actions and behavior, fathers demonstrate important values which serve as a blueprint for their children’s own growth.

Partners and team of Sole for African Child fit a father who walks barefoot with shoes
Partners and team of Sole for African Child fit a father who walks barefoot with shoes

“A father’s role is not to teach his children how to be like him, but to teach them how to be who they are.” — Unknown

5. Encouraging Education and Aspirations
Fathers play a critical role in supporting and encouraging their children’s education. They recognize the importance of schooling and actively participate in their children’s academic journey. Fathers in Africa often emphasize the value of education, motivating their children to pursue their dreams and achieve higher aspirations.

“A good father is one of the most unsung, unpraised, unnoticed, and yet one of the most valuable assets in our society.” — Billy Graham

6. Fostering Gender Equality
Fathers have the power to influence gender norms and attitudes within their families and communities. In Africa, progressive fathers challenge traditional gender roles, treating their sons and daughters with equal respect and opportunities. By promoting gender equality, fathers play a significant role in breaking the cycle of gender-based discrimination and empowering their children to thrive.

“A father’s love is the fuel that enables a normal human being to do the impossible.” — Marion C. Garretty

7. Building Strong Family Bonds
Fathers contribute to the overall cohesion and strength of the family unit. They foster strong bonds between family members, promoting unity, communication, and support. African fathers often emphasize the importance of family values and create a sense of belonging, nurturing an environment where their children feel loved and valued.

In Africa, fathers hold significant responsibilities and have a profound impact on their children’s lives. Their presence, guidance, and active involvement contribute to the holistic development and well-being of their children, shaping them into confident, resilient, and compassionate individuals who can positively impact their communities and society as a whole.

Team of volunteers planting trees at Riara University (Nairobi) on World Environment Day
Team of volunteers planting trees at Riara University (Nairobi) on World Environment Day

Uncovering the Heart-wrenching Stories of those Affected by Albinism in Africa: A Harsh Reality

Tragically, albinos in Africa face extreme discrimination, violence, and even death due to deeply rooted superstitions and ignorance.

According to the United Nations, people with albinism in Africa face a significantly higher risk of being attacked or killed compared to the general population. In some countries, the rate of attacks against albinos is as high as one in every 1,400 individuals. (United Nations Human Rights Council)

How we can take action to protect and support them?

Addressing Human Rights: Albinism and Equality

Albinism is not only a physical condition but also a human rights issue.

Albinism is a genetic condition characterized by the lack of melanin pigment in the skin, hair, and eyes. Albinos have a higher susceptibility to sunburn, skin cancer, and visual impairments. Access to healthcare and sun protection measures are crucial for their well-being. (Source: National Organization for Albinism and Hypopigmentation)

What are the challenges faced by albinos in Africa?

In some African communities, harmful superstitions and myths persist, associating albinism with supernatural powers or being cursed. These beliefs contribute to the discrimination and violence faced by albinos, as they are often viewed as outcasts or even considered a threat. (Amnesty International)

Are you a father? Explore the urgent need for awareness, education, and advocacy to ensure albinos’ safety, rights, and inclusion in society.

Albinos in Africa: Statistics That Demand Our Attention

Shocking statistics reveal the alarming number of albinos who fall victim to violence and discrimination. Discover the sobering truth behind these numbers and the urgent need for action.

Albinism Society of Kenya volunteers planting trees

A study conducted by Under the Same Sun, an organization advocating for the rights of albinos, revealed that more than 600 attacks on people with albinism have been reported in 26 African countries between 2007 and 2018. These attacks often involve mutilation, murder, and the trafficking of body parts for witchcraft purposes.

Breaking the Cycle: Empowering Albinos in Africa

It is important to continue raising awareness about the discrimination and violence faced by albinos in Africa and work towards creating a more inclusive and accepting society that values and protects the rights of all individuals.

Learn about the individuals, initiatives, and organizations dedicated to providing support, education, and empowerment to albinos in Africa. Discover how you can contribute to breaking the cycle of discrimination and create a more inclusive society.

Here are 3 suggestions of how fathers can contribute to empowering Albinos:

  • Education and Awareness: Its a fact that albinism is a genetic condition present in all ethnicities and occurs worldwide. Fathers can contribute to empowering albinos by educating themselves and their families about albinism, its causes, and the challenges faced by individuals with albinism. By understanding the condition and raising awareness within their communities, fathers can help break the cycle of discrimination.
  • Supportive and Inclusive Parenting: A report of the Independent Expert on the Enjoyment of Human Rights by Persons with Albinism (United Nations Human Rights Council) states that discrimination against albinos is a prevalent issue in many African countries, leading to social exclusion, bullying, and even violence. Fathers can play a crucial role in fostering inclusivity by promoting acceptance and respect for individuals with albinism. By demonstrating love, support, and understanding, fathers can help their children develop positive attitudes towards albinism and combat prejudice.
  • Advocacy and Community Engagement: International Federation of Red Cross and Red Crescent Societies (IFRC) reports that many African countries have enacted laws and policies to protect the rights of individuals with albinism, but implementation and enforcement remain challenges. Fathers can engage in advocacy efforts and community initiatives that promote the rights and well-being of individuals with albinism. This can involve collaborating with local organizations, participating in awareness campaigns, and advocating for policies and laws that protect the rights of albinos.
A group of Sole for African Child team and partners at Emining School for the Blind, Baringo County
Sole for African Child team and partners at Emining School for the Blind, Baringo County

Making a Difference: How You Can Help

What practical steps and initiatives can you take to make a meaningful impact in the lives of African boys and albinos?

7 Practical Steps and Initiatives YOU Can Take to Make a Meaningful Impact in the Lives of African Boys and Albinos

  1. Educate Yourself and Others

Take the initiative to learn about the challenges and needs faced by African boys and albinos. Read books, articles, and watch documentaries to gain a deeper understanding. Share your knowledge with others to raise awareness and debunk harmful stereotypes.

2. Support Education and Scholarships

Education is a powerful tool for empowerment. Support organizations that provide scholarships and educational opportunities specifically for African boys and albinos. Donate to initiatives that promote inclusive education and vocational training programs.

3. Advocate for Equal Opportunities

Raise your voice against discrimination and advocate for equal opportunities for African boys and albinos. Encourage local communities, schools, and businesses to adopt inclusive practices and policies. Promote diversity and inclusion in all aspects of society.

School children delighted to get a pair of sandals fitted by volunteers of Sole for African Child
School children delighted to get a pair of sandals fitted by volunteers of Sole for African Child

4. Provide Access to Healthcare

Support initiatives that provide access to quality healthcare for African boys and albinos. Donate to organizations that offer medical services, including specialized care for individuals with albinism. Raise funds for sunscreen, protective clothing, and eyewear to help prevent sun-related health issues.

5. Empower through Entrepreneurship

Support entrepreneurship programs and microfinance initiatives aimed at empowering African boys and albinos. Provide mentorship, training, and resources to help them start their own businesses and become financially independent.

6. Combat Stigma and Discrimination

Raise awareness about the harmful effects of stigma and discrimination faced by African boys and albinos. Organize campaigns, workshops, and community dialogues to challenge negative beliefs and promote inclusivity. Encourage acceptance and celebrate diversity.

7. Collaborate with Local Organizations

Partner with local organizations and NGOs working directly with African boys and albinos. Volunteer your time, skills, or resources to support their projects and initiatives. Collaborate on community development programs that address specific needs and empower individuals.

Remember, even small actions can make a significant impact. By taking these practical steps and initiatives, you can contribute to creating a more inclusive and supportive environment for African boys and albinos, helping them realize their full potential and lead fulfilling lives.

From supporting organizations to raising awareness, every action counts in creating a brighter future.

Celebrating Father’s Day with Purpose

This Father’s Day, let’s celebrate with a purpose. Honor the role of fathers while acknowledging the challenges faced by African boys. Take a moment to reflect on the plight of the African boy and consider how you can contribute to their well-being and upliftment.

As we celebrate Father’s Day, let us not forget the African boy’s plight. Together, we can bring awareness, support, and change to their lives. Join us in rewriting their stories, uplifting their spirits, and creating a world where every African boy has the opportunity to thrive. Together, let us transform Father’s Day into a meaningful celebration of love, compassion, and hope for a brighter future.

References

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  • Children’s rights progress in the Middle East and North Africa despite lasting inequality and conflict. UNICEF
  • The Importance of Fathers for Child Development: How fathers contribute to children’s well-being. Psychology Today

Further Research

  1. Abubakar, A., Wanjala, S.W., Van Baar, A.L. (2017). Fatherhood in the African Context: Review and a Case Study in Kenya. In: Abubakar, A., van de Vijver, F. (eds) Handbook of Applied Developmental Science in Sub-Saharan Africa. Springer, New York, NY. doi:/10.1007/978-1-4939-7328-6_5.
  2. Fouts, H. N. (2012). Fathering in central and east Africa. In D. W. Shwalb, B. J. Shwalb, & M. E. Lamb (Eds.), Fathers in cultural context (pp. 151–172). New York, NY: Routledge.
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