PART 1: Human Nature : Those with Over-Inflated Sense of Self-worth.

Dylan Rosario
4 min readApr 19, 2024

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Series on Human Behavior

PART 1

What do you do when they overestimate their value? The human propensity to inflate self-worth is a fascinating puzzle that requires us occasionally to retreat from our immediate judgments and reconsider our perspectives. I posit that while many of us nurture a belief in the inherent goodness of mankind, it is imperative to acknowledge the complexity that not all people embody this virtue. This realization ushers in a deeper contemplation of human nature and an exploration into the authentic desires that animate our lives.

The discourse intensifies around individuals who, devoid of restraint, openly express every fleeting emotion and thought — those who wear their hearts on their sleeves and whose tongues are unfiltered streams of consciousness. Such unbridled expression, when coupled with authority, transforms personal views into perceived edicts. This phenomenon raises probing questions: Why do the words of a few resonate with the force of law? Why do masses abdicate their rationality and independent thought in favor of a persona crafted by public relations strategies?

At the heart of these inquiries lies the essence of human nature and motivation. Historical and psychological analyses reveal that characteristics typically categorized as aberrant — such as those found in sociopaths and psychopaths — afflict a notable portion of the populace. If contemporary estimates suggest that 20% of individuals exhibit these traits, it prompts a reflection on the constancy of human behavior across centuries. Historical literary works, from the tragic explorations of Shakespeare to the epic narratives of ancient Greece, illustrate that these dispositions are not anomalies of modernity but enduring elements of the human condition.

The surprise should not stem from the existence of such traits among us but from our collective amnesia regarding their prevalence and influence. Sociopathic tendencies manifest not only in personal relationships but also resonate in the broader political and social spheres. When individuals surrender their moral and ethical compasses to charismatic leaders, they echo historical patterns of deference to authority — patterns that often lead to the erosion of personal accountability and integrity.

This relinquishment of individual judgment and responsibility is starkly evident in the politics of the MAGA Republican Party, epitomized by figures like former President Trump and Senator Cotton. Recent endorsements by Senator Cotton of extreme measures against protestors reflect a disturbing willingness to violate human rights for political gain. Such rhetoric, reminiscent of darker periods such as McCarthyism, not only undermines the principles of free speech but also signals a descent into authoritarianism that prioritizes conformity and control over liberty and justice.

The challenge, therefore, extends beyond diagnosing the traits of influential leaders to understanding why societies periodically succumb to their sway. It demands a rigorous examination of the conditions under which populations may forsake their moral convictions for the illusory safety promised by demagogues. In grappling with these issues, we must strive not only to comprehend the darker aspects of human nature but also to fortify the foundations of ethical behavior and critical thinking in our civic life.

Naïve Ignorance

We are often Naive And or intentionally Ignorant when it Suits Us.

The proposition that “most people are good” serves as a normative assumption about the inherent virtues of humanity, yet it simultaneously masks the nuanced reality that not all individuals conform to uniform moral and ethical standards. This general belief in the benevolence of the majority may engender a superficial layer of trust, potentially misleading when engaging with figures of authority and influence. The crucial distinction that “most does not equal all” is instrumental in modulating our expectations and interactions, recognizing that while human nature tends toward virtue, it is also fraught with susceptibility to error, misjudgment, and occasionally, malevolence.

In the domain of leadership, especially those wielding considerable power, to presume unwaveringly benevolent intentions based on charisma, popularity, or democratic election is not merely naive but perilously optimistic. Historical precedents abound with leaders who, initially celebrated for their ostensible virtues, have exploited their authority with less than honorable objectives. The fundamental error in such instances lies in the omission of rigorous skepticism — a critical interrogation of the motives and actions of our leaders rather than presupposing their integrity.

The tension between the belief in the general goodness of people and the pragmatic acknowledgment that some are not, compels a nuanced appreciation of human capabilities and intentions. It advocates for a vigilant and discerning stance, particularly in our appraisal of those in authoritative roles. This approach does not advocate for cynicism but recommends an informed and cautious optimism. It concedes that while many may aim for ethical conduct, the human condition is invariably marked by imperfections and the potential for ethical lapses.

This stance necessitates a dynamic conceptualization of trust and virtue, one that is perpetually reevaluated through our engagements with diverse individuals in varying contexts. It involves an acknowledgment of the dual potential within each person for both virtuous and detrimental actions, and that even those with a history of positive conduct can err or act counter to the collective good. By acknowledging this complexity, we can more adeptly navigate our interpersonal and societal interactions, ensuring that our trust is judiciously placed and our expectations are kept realistic.

In sum, while the axiom “most people are good” lays a foundation for general trust and optimism in our dealings, it is critical to juxtapose this belief with the awareness that humans are inherently complex and capable of a broad spectrum of behaviors. This balanced perspective engenders a society that is more resilient and adaptable, better poised to foster the best in human nature while vigilantly safeguarding against its potential failings.

Series On human nature.

Part #2 Link : Pragmatic shame

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