Soul Dancer
Sep 2, 2018 · 1 min read

Yes — we need to talk about suicide — all flavors, shapes, sizes and colors. Suicide — much like a jigsaw puzzle has many pieces. When the final piece of the suicide puzzle inspires a sense of peace — game over.

Whenever I encounter a long-term relationship who’s history is rife with drama and struggle — who now seems peaceful and at ease with life — my attention perks up. Given my past volunteer work on suicide help/hot lines I’ve come to know the power of naming the elephant in the room. In a tactful, respective way I ask, “are you actively planning to end your life? If so, how?”

The more rapid and concrete their response is directly relates to the imminence of their suicide. When I encounter detailed, doable plans I plant the seed that suicide is one viable option to your problems. May I explore other options as well? Based on their desire to actually receive support we go from there . . .

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    Yes — Soul Dancer = birth name. MSW ~ Monk ~ Shaman ~ Teacher ~ Speaker ~ Author. More: http://bit.ly/susoul