I needed to read this right now. I’m addicted to closure in relationships. Often I actually find it though, and in those cases, it’s always a beneficial situation when it happens. I recently found closure to something that began 6 years ago and caused a great deal of pain in my life and others involved in an incident, and a person came back into my life out of the blue that offered that closure to me when I was least expecting it. So it really can happen. But what I’m realizing is that I need to let go of the need for closure and the emotions I experience if I don’t have it. If it happens, it happens. If not, I need to accept it and allow that much of life is uncertainty, and some things I will never know.