They’re strangers to the server but have requested to remain anonymous to the rest of the world.
Nicole Dieker

Right, I get that. But if this is a thought exercise about what we would do if we were in the server’s situation, it’s not the case that the couple is anonymous. I would LOVE an anonymous benefactor and that would not come with the complications about staying in touch you reference above.

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