No Man
Growing up, I was exposed to quality films starring Jim Carrey. You can imagine my disdain after watching Yes Man. It had promise, but it also had an oddly placed scene involving an elderly person…
But saying yes to more things! There’s definitely a takeaway there. Opening the mind too far isn’t possible, so say yes to everything that comes your way or else be a victim to some fatalistic force that places you in uncomfortable situations if you don’t. This is a philosophy I can get on board with. Until it gradually begins to sap the strengths of all other philosophies.
I’ve mentioned my affinity for pro-tips etc. before. A pattern in my writing has arisen, and it pertains to processing tips/ideas/platitudes in a different, more experienced light. Today, this idea is that of saying “no.” Among the sprawling lists of tips to become a millionaire on Quora, I’ve noticed that saying no is a recurring one.
For me, this is quite conflicting. Living in Chicago with six other people constantly doing things, it can be difficult to turn them down. What can I say? I enjoy doing things. The lack of specificity has gradually indicated to me a potential problem. I want to do all the things, but I also want to be utilitarian and accomplish my goals, which presents some difficulty. Do some thing, or accomplish some, thing(burgeoning problem with goal setting too)
Glancing back on this week, it’s clear to me that there were times when I could have, perhaps even should have, said no. Not that I regret this week so far, for I’ve certainly enjoyed it. Other areas of my life have taken a toll, such as reading, writing, and studying.
So is it time to say no more, or be more discerning? Or both?
-M
