The four layers of our D/s-relation and how we use them to level up our sessions
As the creators of the SPNKD we talk a lot about how our own and others’ Dom/sub-dynamics work. Do you ever reflect on how this kind of relationship could work for you?
The unfortunate truth is that the internet expects most Dominants to be result-oriented, meaning they expect the Dom to communicate only what they want done as if subs merely flip switches and push buttons until the prescribed performances emerge. A lot of dominants seem to be result-driven; it all looks very cinematic and after all, and it appears to be the easiest way to dominate. It’s kind of…
SPNKD
Designed to elevate and stimulate desire, where lovers are in control and pleasure reigns supreme.
