A Man Who Thinks You Are Worthy Will Come Along

Ladies, there is a difference between a man who wants you and a man who values you. The day you understand this difference is when you will find the right man. I know you have had enough of the wrong men and relationships that have literally numbed your feelings. Now, what? It’s big-time you start respecting yourself, first. The fact that you have kissed more than a couple of frogs doesn’t necessarily mean the prince won’t come along. Your prince is out there, stuck in a tree or something.

First things first. No losing hope! You can’t lose hope just because you have fallen for the wrong men in life. Whenever you feel like you are done with the relationship drama, think about what you deserve, not what those men made you feel like. For all the hard work you do, the efforts you put in a relationship, there’s got to be a life for you ahead, wherein your loving husband will hug you from behind with a coffee made for you. So, stay! You could be near him.

Stop rushing, really. Let’s say your relationship just ended or you have not gotten over it maybe. Wait, give it some time and then go. Mostly, when you rush into a relationship to forget the awkward feeling your previous relationship is giving you, it is bad. You will end up comparing the two relationships and end up not being good at both. For everything on earth, there is a healing time. Give your feelings that time so that it can mend itself to fight back.

Remember, you are enough. When you start valuing yourself, know what you deserve, that’s when you will recognize the right man. You’d maybe realize he has been so close to you and you didn’t even recognize he is the one. Respect yourself. Invest all your trust in the fact that you deserve a happy, happy life with the right man. The right one will eventually fall in your way.

You think it is time you find the right one. When you do, you will know why you weren’t just enough for the men you dated or been in a relationship with, earlier in your life. You will know why it all broke, why it didn’t make sense. Let me rewind and remind you of what your mom could have told you when you turned 18 — When you know, you know. Trust that!

The right man will appreciate your soul and body, accept you for who you are, support you through your mood swings and work stress, respect your integrity and independence and make you feel like you are the only girl in existence. For those who told you these were only stories and not applicable for real life, they haven’t found the love of their life yet. Because the right one would do these for you. From the simple morning coffee to kissing you good night, he will keep proving his love in every action he does. One day, you don’t have to fight for his love or attention, because you will have it all.

For all, you should know, be open towards what is yet to come. Don’t compare or expect a man to express his love with certain actions. You could be the girl who makes him a Sunday sandwich to show you love him but he could show his love by taking you for a long ride to help you forget your work stress. Just look deeper.