May 24The Definition of SelfHeterosexual, homosexual, lesbian, bi-sexual. These are terms we as a culture use to define who an individual wants to be partners with in an intimate relationship. There are many other words that we use to define ourselves in sexual terms. …Mental Health4 min read
May 3Naomi JuddAs a teenager in the 1980’s, I remember the Judds. They were a highly successful country music duo with many hits. Their music was so popular that it cut into the genres of pop music and rock as well. Of course, the duo was headed by the mama, Naomi Judd. …1 min read
Apr 29Functional DepressionMillions of people walk around every day, living under a dark cloud of sadness and misery. They go about their jobs and their daily business. Many of these people excel at their jobs, even while weighed down by this awful cloud of sadness. They are, at least outwardly, successful, despite…4 min read
Apr 29“My Stupid Hero….”No good deed goes un-punished. Normally, I’m quite handy. I can do brake jobs. I’ve rebuilt the front-end suspensions on cars. I can fix almost any house-hold appliance, except ice makers. Ice makers suck. They’re designed to pour water over moving parts in a freezing environment. …12 min read
Apr 23SpiritualitySpirituality is a difficult subject to write about. Thoughout my life I’ve always questioned things. Usually in silence. Nonetheless, even from an early age, I was looking for truth, I was looking for facts. Still today, my mind is always churning, trying to discern fact from fiction, truth from spin…Mental Health11 min read
Apr 20EvilEvil In 1984, Duane Owen killed a 14 year old baby-sitter and a 35 year old single mother in South Florida. Both murders were brutal and similar. He broke into both homes. He hit one victim on the head with a hammer, killed her and had sex with her corpse…Duane Owen4 min read
Apr 19Ms. Smith *Ms. Smith * I had been warned about Ms. Smith. She was schizophrenic and “difficult”. Years prior, I had taught myself to ignore the opinions and judgments of others regarding the character and personality of someone else. I’ll make my own assessment and judgment. …Schizophrenia7 min read
Apr 17The Family TreeThe Family Tree The proverbial Family Tree was a universal assignment in school. At least when I sent to school, in the dark ages, before smart phones and the metaverse. I dutifully filled my tree out the best I could. I made it to the branches for my grandparents. When…Suicide8 min read
Apr 16Escaping HellAnyone who has ever lived with depression and who has thought about suicide does not fear going to hell. They are already there… Growing up, I was raised in a very strict and intolerant religious environment. The saintly Baptist people did a great job teaching fear and spreading disinformation. Anything…Mentalhealth11 min read