THIS is How to NEVER Care What ANYONE Thinks, EVER Again!
In my opinion one of the biggest problems in society is that everyone
cares so much about what everybody else thinks. You’ve probably done things you didn’t want to do just so other people would think better of you and you probably missed out on doing things you did want to do just so other people wouldn’t think less of you. Hey don’t worry I’ve done it too and it’s nothing to be ashamed of. I’m going to tell you how to never care what anybody else thinks ever again so you can start doing all the things you want to do.

Understand this, nobody really cares;if you’re doing something weird they might think oh it’s weird, what a weird guy but they’re only going to think that for a minute and then they’re going to go back to their
lives and not bother about it.If you do something cool they might think
that guy’s cool but again they’re only going to think that for a minute and
then they’re going to go back to their lives and not give a fuck. So other
people are going to care about your life for a minute you’re going to care about it for a lot longer than that so why the hell would you do something just for them, to entertain them for one minute when it’s going to affect you for days,weeks, months, years even your entire life.
I’m going to give you an example one of the guys in my neighborhood recently got himself a Audi it’s a pretty expensive car he drove by me one day and I thought damn that’s a bad ass car because it is and I was
checking it out and I was somewhat impressed and then 30
seconds later I was thinking about something else and didn’t give a shit
anymore. So if he had bought that car to impress me or to impress anybody else sure I was impressed but thirty seconds later I didn’t give a fuck anymore. On the other hand if he bought it for himself because he likes the car it’s his favorite car he just enjoys driving it; that’s perfectly fine because he’s going to enjoy it every time he looks at it and every time he drives it; compared to the guy who’s only going to enjoy it when other people are looking at it.
Secondly,Try to understand people-it’s real easy to get worked up when other people are looking at you saying things you don’t like.Maybe they just went through a breakup or a death in the family and they aren’t thinking straight. Maybe they were abused as a kid , don’t see other people as clones of yourself because you would like a certain thing doesn’t mean that they will too. Understand why they might be the way they are and why they might be acting the way they’re acting; if they were raised in a Muslim family probably they wont approve you of wearing short dresses, understating this difference will help you realize why not to care about them and at the same time you will understand why they think that way.Ultimately what’s important is just
realizing that they’re different and that they’re who they are for various
reasons and it shouldn’t bother you.
Thirdly,Stop using social media all the time. Social media almost always
reinforces the desire to impress other people, you take pictures thinking about
whether other people will think you look good or not ,how impressed they are and then you look at their pictures and you compare how
many likes and comments you have and if you have more than they do you feel a little twitch of happiness. Somebody posts a cool picture you look at it you’re impressed for a few seconds then you keep scrolling that’s it. Wow for a few seconds they put all that time and effort into looking good and cropping and filtering that picture and they probably even took 20 different shots so
they can pick the best one just to look as cool as possible and you looked at it
for three seconds and then you forgot about it. Look what an excellent use of their time so as you can see it’s really just a big circle jerk of time wasting and bullshitting and at the end of the day nobody even gives a shit.
When you’re doing things to seek validation from others and you aren’t
enjoying the process of actually doing it. If you’re doing it to
please other people then you need to cut it out ASAP.
