I agree that this type of relationship is not as emotionally satisfying as many Westerners would like, but I don’t really see how it’s imbalanced. The woman has to sleep with and cater to a man she wouldn’t be with if he didn’t have money. (Our current president being a good example. He treats his wife like a servant when he isn’t treating her like a trophy.) It’s a trade in which each side gives up something to get something else they want. It’s also not the ONLY option for men. The world is full of average-looking women or even homely ones who are capable of loving and valuing men for themselves! If you’re worried that beautiful women want to exploit you, find someone at your own level of attractiveness where the inequality won’t be such an issue.