Don’t give up though.
The example you gave — I’d talk about it if I could, except I don’t really know women who act that way — probably because I’m very picky about my friends. So I’m sure it happens, just not in my immediate circle where I can observe the behavior.
But also, know that just that there are honest men just trying their best, there are also women who will be completely happy with that. My oldest is getting married in two months, to someone who doesn’t own a Ferrari, but knows how to treat her with respect and dignity. She does the same for him.