Meg thank you for sharing this wisdom! Grief is very sensitive that most people who don’t know how to act or what to say keep off. Recently two of my friends suffered miscarriages, they were both ‘first time’ moms to be and were really looking forward to having their babies. When i heard the news I was shaken because i didn’t even imagine what I would say when I called. Two months down the line, I haven’t called. Good thing is that its never too late to show up. Iam going to show up and be there for both, thanks for bringing this to light. Awesome read, great advice.