I want to see both sides. It’s pretty harmful to self to put your perceived good moments on a pedestal and reject/resent your perceived bad moments. When I am going through a human moment, I retreat. I isolate and call it insulation. I constantly berate myself for my shortcomings and…

Lessons I learned from two summers at Hacker Summer Camp — It was a week out from DEF CON 27, and I was a bundle of nerves. I’d been to DEF CON before, but this year, I had my own community that I was excited to see and my own set of responsibilities at Hacker Summer Camp, an affectionate name for…