I really appreciate you taking the time to read and respond! I definitely didn’t expect this to be read by so many people, so I wanted to answer that I purposefully wrote “victim” as much as possible when referring to rape/assault because I did not want to gender that. I wrote women or minorities when I felt it was appropriate.
I wrote most of this to capture a tone and it is definitely not directed at ALL men. I realize there are caveats to everything, even female rape apologists, but it was written more to get a point across than anything else. I hope you or anyone else did not take offense to that.