Really NB, why be a judgemental jerk? 
What does that add to the convo, or bring to the party?

Why write things such as“ you’ve got a major ass alcoholism problem”…. Really? Are you a counselor or a mental health worker who specialises in substance abuse…. and if you are.. turn in your empathy papers..

This is one of those instances where if you have nothing nice or relevant to say to someone who is laying it out there, why not “shutty uppy’?

IMSHO, of course.