Feeling stuck, like the same things are happening to you over and over again, unable to adapt to what’s going on, is not a good way to be living. Instead, concentrate on why it is that you want to break through the stickiness of the moment. Really, that is all that you need to start. Because, armed with your ‘Why’, you can tap. — It doesn’t matter if it’s been brought to your attention by your partner, your mother or your dog. But so long as you agree with any of them that something is not right, you can begin.