The Self-Awareness Narcissist, Part 2. © Stephen Herron and Alex Turing

The Self-Aware Narcissist, Part 2

Stephen Herron
3 min readFeb 16, 2024

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The question of whether narcissists can attain self-awareness is both complex and divisive. Traditionally, narcissism has been associated with a lack of introspection and an inability to recognize one’s own flaws and negative impact on others. However, recent research suggests that self-awareness may not be entirely out of reach for narcissists.

  1. Limited Self-Awareness: While narcissists may possess some level of self-awareness, it tends to be limited and focused on maintaining their self-image rather than understanding the deeper aspects of their personality. Studies have shown that narcissists are often aware of their grandiose traits and may even exploit them to gain social validation and admiration[1]. However, their self-awareness may be deficient when it comes to acknowledging their insecurities and the impact of their behaviors on others.
  2. Narcissistic Injury and Awareness: Narcissists are highly sensitive to criticism and tend to react strongly to perceived threats to their self-esteem. This suggests a level of awareness regarding their vulnerabilities, albeit in a defensive manner. When faced with narcissistic injury, such as a significant failure or rejection, narcissists may experience a temporary rupture in their grandiose self-image, providing an opportunity for glimpses of self-awareness to emerge[3].
  3. Therapeutic

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