Know that there is a difference between the autistic and the sociopathic.
Your introspection puts you more into the autistic. I guess I don’t care for the dumb designation, though it is somewhat appropriate. It can however just be a lack of ability.
I feel like learned behaviors are perceived as fake, even when they are genuine.
You might not be so quick to place men and women in these separate boxes, they do not all fit there so neatly.