Heidi, what a terrific piece! Thanks for sharing. I am glad to hear there are more of us (men) beginning to ‘get it’! Not even remotely claim that I do (get it), but I have always been disgusted by the actions of the ‘some' you’ve depicted here. You are right that some men are confused, but not all. And, I will always try to ‘un-confuse' as many as possible.