Lots of really interesting and thought-provoking ideas! I think we may have mistakenly treated orgasm as another social status symbol - Those who know how, and those who don’t.
I think we are still a world away from Shere Hite’s “discovery” of the missing female orgasm, and a real, non-gendered investigation of the differences between male and female orgasm in our species, and their roles.
But on another note, I notice the (in my eyes) weird power plays that we have in deciding if someone is attractive or not. Intelligence in a prospective partner is a major defining attractor for me, but, I am wondering as I get older, am I actually looking for wisdom? It’s a cliche, but boy, I’ve gone out with a lot of smart people that can’t even drive a car!
