Mar 17Member-onlyHow Many Thoughts Are in Your Head?The Answer May Astound You. Credit: Miguel Á. Padriñán Do you remember that old saying that you are only using 10% of your brain? Occasionally, you still see people repeat it. It’s a myth, largely promoted by some very old neuroscience data when we did not know what certain parts…Psychology7 min readPsychology7 min read
Feb 20Member-onlyPracticing the Skills You Need to Change Your LifeEveryone is familiar with the struggle to retain skills once learned. It’s a process that is ever present in psychotherapy so unpacking how it works there can provide useful lessons for us all. Although clients may seem motivated in-session, the motivation often dwindles once confronted by the challenges in the…Self Help4 min readSelf Help4 min read
Feb 16Member-onlyThe Darwin Effect: How Evolution Can Guide Your SuccessCredit: Misael Moreno Last Sunday, February 12, was Darwin Day and it is worth a moment to think again about his relevance to our human struggles in the modern era. Most high school biology students know that at only 22 years of age, Charles Darwin went on a voyage that…Self Help8 min readSelf Help8 min read
Jan 23Member-onlySo You Messed Up Your New Year’s ResolutionThree Big Questions To Get Back On Track Credit: Arun Thomas You are likely familiar with the fable of the tortoise and the hare. Although much faster than the tortoise, the hare loses the race, because — overly confident — it decided to nap, while the tortoise crawled persistently —…New Year Resolution5 min readNew Year Resolution5 min read
Jan 9Member-onlyWhat I Learned About Pain From Almost Being KilledHow Your Focus and Judgment Make Your Struggle A long time ago, I almost lost my life at work. My dad sold aluminium to aircraft manufacturers in San Diego, and I was working in the factory to put myself through college. Among other things, they produced aluminium foil, which required…Pain6 min readPain6 min read
Dec 28, 2022Member-onlyDealing With Stress During The HolidaysThe Surprisingly Effective On-A-Holiday formula Credit: Frans Van Heerden The holidays are often the time of year where family comes together. Distant and close relatives show up, and bring forth family memories; not all of which are positive. There are expectations towards yourself and others. Things you wish to happen…Holidays4 min readHolidays4 min read
Nov 24, 2022Member-onlyTune in; Turn on; Figure it outCredit: Fiona Art The history of psychedelics is deeply intertwined with the history of humanity. Indigenous cultures often ingested hallucinogenic substances in spiritual rituals to build deeper connections with nature and different deities. They used them to heal wounds, to prepare for battles, and also just to have fun. Nowadays…Psychedelics4 min readPsychedelics4 min read
Nov 8, 2022Four Fs That Make A Freakin’ DifferenceCredit: Chevanon Photography When you ask high achievers why they succeed where others fail, they often reply with what psychologists call “self-efficacy” — a belief in their ability to achieve their goals. Therapists are not much different. …Self Help4 min readSelf Help4 min read
Oct 10, 2022Member-onlyEverything Important About Mental Health You Learned in the GymCredit: AI image How can you become more mentally resilient? I think it’s possible to give an answer that covers almost everything science can currently tell us about what to do. …Mental Resilience4 min readMental Resilience4 min read
Sep 6, 2022Member-onlyHow to Know If You Have a Good TherapistWhen you think about visiting a therapist for the first time, you might feel quite uncomfortable. After all, why should you tell a virtual stranger the most intimate details of your life — things you haven’t even told your spouse, or your closest friends? What, are you going to be…Therapy6 min readTherapy6 min read