“The struggle is real!” grin emoticon 
I don’t want to invalidate this woman’s plight, because for her, it is real. She knows more than I do about life as an attractive girl, so I’ll assume every word is truth.

BUT… I want to say that I KNOW MORE THAN HER about life as an average-looking guy. And I also know that average-looking guys fare much worse in life, overall, than good-looking girls. It’s a bit like how Viper (in DotA) and Kogmaw (in LoL) can both have ridiculously high attack speed at the expense of taking extra damage in return. Viper and Kogmaw are both amazing heroes because they have amazing abilities, albeit with a drawback.

Life is like a Diablo 2 game, where some people roll higher in intelligence, others start with a good Strength roll, while this girl clearly hit the jackpot in the Charm or Beauty stat. Everybody faces difficult times in life. Everybody has their own struggles. BUT… not everybody goes and complains about it. Like an SJW.

So rather than rebut the quoted point — “… we don’t believe you should have that luxury [of ignoring our plight]”, I would go ahead and write an article about how SHE shouldn’t have the luxury of ignoring the plights of average-looking guys (believe me — there are plenty I could discuss in great detail).