StopMyCodepencyI return from almost a year of working to change.I was just skimming over a past post and read my admittance about self victimization and how I was committed to ceasing this practice. I…Jun 24, 2018Jun 24, 2018
StopMyCodepencyI’m just trying to do my bestI’m a registered disabled student. Not uncommon. I have add/adhd/dyslexia. I have a teacher, my advisor, who’s also the chair of a science…May 15, 2018May 15, 2018
StopMyCodepencyWhy can you not stop saying “I”Every single time I call, 70%-100% of the conversation is about her.Apr 9, 2017Apr 9, 2017
StopMyCodepencyI was asked to enableToday my father told me I needed to talk to my mother and bite my tongue. He in fact stated “You just need to talk to her and I know it’s…Mar 22, 2017Mar 22, 2017
StopMyCodepencyOver the week I was very sick.It took me getting that sick for her to be a mom. After that day my mom said to me that I am so stubborn and hard headed that I have to…Mar 12, 2017Mar 12, 2017
StopMyCodepencyResponsibilitiesI hate how most times when your husband is sick or needs care I’m the one that takes care of him. You have already mixed up your vows with…Mar 5, 2017Mar 5, 2017
StopMyCodepencyIn high school and in my first few years of college when you were mad at me and I was in the house…Feb 22, 2017Feb 22, 2017
StopMyCodepencyToxic AmnesiaI have never been able to talk to you about all the times you hurt me because you act like you’ve never touched me. I remember one day you…Feb 4, 2017Feb 4, 2017
StopMyCodepencyMy father pulled a muscle in his lower back yesterday.I don’t remember you doing anything when either of his parents died.Jan 22, 2017Jan 22, 2017
StopMyCodepencyNew commitments for the new year 2017It’s been a goal of mine to be fully independent for a while now and the only way I’m going to be able to do that is start with one area of…Jan 1, 2017Jan 1, 2017