You’re An Asshole If You Aren’t Honest.
What are you going to do about it?
Someone asks you for advice or an opinion on a topic and you shudder at the thought because you don’t want to hurt their feelings.
Shame, they need it, so you’re doing them a disservice by not being honest.
You start to sugar coat it and tell them what they “want” to hear.
It’s not fair. You’re not helping the person. You’re hurting your own pride and ego as well.
Brutal honesty is something we are lacking today. It’s empowering, it causes chaos when chaos is needed and starts a dialogue which will help us grow as humans.
I know we do need to censor ourselves to a certain degree, so long as you’re not being offensive then you NEED to level up your honesty.
Tell them how it is. If it hurts their feelings, shame. They’ll get over it and more than likely thank you for it.
It has taken me a very long time to be comfortable enough to just say it how it is.
My ego and pride — constantly digging in to me, telling me that I should or shouldn’t do it because “reasons”
Fuck it, I’m done with people stealing my energy.
So the next time someone pisses you off, or wants advice.
Suck it up.
You’d be really surprised at the results. I’ve had people thank me for not pussyfooting and giving them that needed slap-o-honestly.
So don’t be an asshole, be honest. It’s better. Duh.
