Porn VS Reality

Performance. That's what tons of people are anxious about when it comes to sex.
Individuals are often worried about how well they will "perform" in the bedroom, feeling lots of pressure to have interactions or receive reactions from their partners similar to what that they have seen in pornography.

Well, I got news for you.

Porn is like a Hollywood Movie. There are directors, professional adult actors, bomb-ass camera equipment, flawless filming locations, and you hardly ever see the bloopers. (which I would highly recommend looking up next time you want a good laugh!)

I like to think of my sex life as more of a documentary, Filmed in my own bedroom with minimal equipment (A go pro or a selfie stick would be pretty fancy.)

I have complete control about how I film my "documentary." I can try new things and incorporate whatever I want into it. I decide who I want to take part in it, where I want to shoot and what I will absolutely not include in my film.

To me, that is empowering.