You are absolutely right about aims. As a meticuluos person , ı always set my short and long aims. But ı became very obsessive to succeed them. Moreover whe ı failed, ı would be frustrated and shocked. My biggest flaw is that ı wanna make things almost at all according to my plan. When ı faced an obstacle, ıt would bother me. I try to change my attitude. Im 22 and ıt needs more time.