The Ongoing Pain of Ghosting

Suavesingles
2 min readMar 26, 2023

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You find yourself love struck and everything is going well, marriage talks are on the table, families have met, all that’s required is the vows to be exchanged. Everything signals towards a future and much more. His family are now your family, you are part of the family portrait.
You never saw this happening, suddenly the shutters go down and its pitch black, its like your love life has eclipsed. You feel anxious and panicky, your intuition tells you something is up but you can’t quite put a finger on it. You calm yourself saying they are probably busy, you come up with logical
explanations to stop yourself from going insane.
However eventually the penny drops and you realise the person wants out, but is not mature enough to communicate this with you. It’s a very cruel and deeply sad end to once meaningful relationship.
Things could have ended in a normal adult manner….but no!!! in the end its your win, who needs such a irresponsible person in their life anyway.
Some people just take no responsibility and you have to somehow give yourself closure, you have love yourself more. The pain of the unknown disturbs you for a long period, it’s a slow death as your brain tries to figure out what went wrong and not to repeat the same. You find yourself on high alert with anyone, especially romantic partners. This particularly common when meeting someone from an app where there is no accountability and its all low investment from the get go.
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