CONVERSATIONS

Between two INFPs

One of those enlightening chat with Ze. Some of his wise words.

In too deep
When we find the courage to grab life by the horns , we’re in it too deep. We need to take control of our lives.

Ideals
But then, we do get to choose our ideals. Our ideals can change. Only, if we let it.

Psychology
Psychology is not for the fainthearted.

Mental Strength
Dealing with the mentally unstable, insane, volatile, and ill… it takes incredible strength, mentally, you have to be like… 300 Spartans. Just be THAT strong.

Emotions
The emotions… once it grabs a lot of your attention…. it doesn’t let loose easily. Practise emotional control. Control the chemical equilibrium in your brain.

Reality
In real life, you have to learn to be tough because reality.. is well… real. You don’t have to give up idealism entirely. Only the portions that conflict directly with reality. You can keep the ideals that give you a survival advantage. So it is important to choose ideals wisely.

Idealism + Reality
Anchor your ideals to the real world and it may someday influence real world dynamics