Getting the most out of your Arrangement

First things first: it all starts with your profile. Take the time to put together an engaging profile that shows your personality. Short profiles with few details seem one-dimensional and uninteresting. They give the impression that if you don’t have enough energy to put together a good profile, you won’t have the energy to be a good Sugar Baby.

A picture truly is worth a thousand words
We’ve all heard many stories about people not using a recent photo, or one that doesn’t really represent them. This is a big no-no. You don’t want to show up for a first meet and find someone you didn’t expect — neither does a Sugar Daddy. Provide a few shots — full body, up-close, all done up or out on an adventure — give him a sense of the whole picture. They can be private, and shared when the time is right, but have a few options up your sleeve.

The first message is crucial
One of the cardinal sins of meeting someone online is using text speak in a message. It’s important that you start off communicating effectively from the get-go, so keep the capital letters and punctuation and leave the txt-talk for text.

Have an honest exchange — be interesting and interested. Spend the time to craft a witty reply and pay attention to details. Store away anything the SD tells you for future reference. It can be incredibly flattering for a Sugar Daddy when you bring up a tiny detail from an early message.

Chemistry is everything
If you progress past a few messages, it’s time to put things to the test. Start with a short and sweet meeting — 30 minutes is a perfect amount — to test the chemistry and see if you want to take things further. There will always be more time if you want to meet again, but if you start off with a long dinner date and you’re not a good match, you can’t get your time back!

It really is all about communication
If things are looking good after a few meetings, it’s time to set out your arrangement. Be honest, with yourself and with your SD. Be clear about what you both expect and how you see things working between you. The more up front you are at this stage, the less likely there will be hurt feelings and disappointment down the line.

Let him lead the schedule
Your SD didn’t get to where he is financially without a lot of time and effort. He’s a busy man, and he has to juggle a lot of different things. He might only be able to spend time with you a few nights a month, he might not be available to text you back several times a day. Think of it this way: the harder your SD works, the more he’ll want to relax, and his Sugar Baby is the perfect person to help him unwind.