Actually this seems like the most common type of women: non-feminist women who think gender roles are a useful and not oppression. Do you think women who want to follow must have no ambitions or thoughts of her own? I’ve yet to meet one, personally.
My personal experience is that even taking to account high dominance women, 80% of them can only operate in a relation where the man leads. I have met countless intelligent, ambitious women who will not bother dating men who do not take charge and lead. Why would men want to follow if women do not like that?