I wasn’t talking about you. If you cannot separate the personal from the political, then I can see where a lot of our disagreements come from.I know nothing about your personal situation so I wouldn’t make any claims about it.
If you’re saying you are a counterexample, you should note I only addressed a group. I did not say all or even a set amount because I just do not know. I only know that there is some incentive, not how strong of an effect it has.
I should also amend my claim: poor single mothers. http://www.stateofourunions.org/2009/graphs/chart_20_SocialFragile.png