For a woman, finding the innate characteristics of another — their appearance, their smell, anything that cannot be worked on — is deeply taboo. Because, we act like men should be able to earn female affection. It is the ultimate payout for capitalist success.
What Does Rape Culture Do To Female Desire — Revisited
Emma Lindsay

It applies to guys too. If we criticize a women for the size of her breasts or her weight we are accused of being shallow. There’s a reason dating profiles have a height data box, but not a weight one.

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