You seem quite shocked for someone who is quite willing to throw out accusations of misogyny, abuse, immaturity, etc.
But unlike all that, this is not an ad-hominem because it is relevant. You keep trying to paint a picture that you’re being attacked just as much as me and that I need to meet you halfway on that. It’s a false equivalence where the bully is now somehow the victim. I said something mean once, so now you have full license to smear my name around because it’s somehow actually my fault.
Also, you take everything I say as a personal attack. I’ve done it for realsies this time (because it’s relevant to your behavior) and you’ve respond with:
Wow. Just wow. That’s all I got.
Which tells me how much you actually felt “attacked” before.