I believe that’s exactly what she’s saying, and I’m seeing a lot of the same here on Medium. I comprehend, but I don’t necessarily agree. I like what you said about her “creating her own truth”, because I haven’t been able to put my reaction into words. I think thinking in terms of privileged and marginalized is adding a division that doesn’t have to be there…at least in her relationships. Of course, I’m white. But, I’m also a woman, and tend not to think that way. I most definitely do not consider myself a feminist.