I cannot imagine the outrage if it were a woman who was being touched that way. It would be blue bloody murder. If it’s worth anything I am outraged that a woman will use her wiles while it suits her, but if the tables were turned there would be a nationally broadcasted news headline. I’m sorry you were “(wo)manhandled”. More sad actually that you felt you shouldn’t feel violated. What happened was a violation of your well-being and has affected you enough to prompt a full writ. There should be no male/female distinctions or allowances made for such mannerless behavior. Maybe she was turning tricks. Be assured that your feelings are normal and natural. If the woman had had a knife and came to attack you, you would not think “oh she’s a woman! I can’t attack her back or protect myself”.