UNSURE?- Phrase which can bring a Paradigm in your life

Surbhi Bhansali
Sep 4, 2018 · 3 min read
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It was Monday and a holiday,which is a great thing in itself but today something interesting happened, which kind off gave me a paradigm shift.It was not something very unusual or very uncommon but it was certainly something really great.

In the evening a message pings (oh no its not a love-story!), we had a little conversation on how are we figuring our career and planning for it. I wanted to pursue masters, but I was not sure should I or should I not.Then he just said one sentence “Surbhi, I believe in you. You will do it”. I was happy for a moment and off-course it put a smile on my face and then soon the conversation ends. But now comes the important part, I was working on my Project and was bit dicey how will I perform and then the magic happened. I opened the chat quickly and read those lines again to feel that again. And it was these lines which really let me drive to the day successfully. I was doing the same tasks but the level of enthusiasm was on a different level. Infact I am not even sure he really means what he said but it gave a hope that yes, I can do it.

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Just one single line gave a boost,not only to my work but to my daily routine,which isn't just work but rather a work life balance.Can you just imagine the power a single sentence and how much difference can it make.It was indeed a magic which just made a difference.

One more important thing associated with this incident was, I was lately narrowing myself and restricting my learning areas, suddenly I regained my old self which says “ Surbhi, You can do it!”.

Its not only me, who experience this , maybe all of you have got this compliment in one form or the other, but learn to embrace it, believe it that yes you can do it and if you don’t have the talent right now , you definitely have the kindle to learn and acquire it.

So after reading this just make sure you compliment people around you. Say them how amazing they are , compliment the people which made a slightest difference in your life. They can be anyone around you, your teacher, mentor,parent, friend your cab driver or maybe your cook. Everyone has some special feature , please let them know how special and inspiring they are to you. Maybe this turns out be one of the best giveaways in your life and a Life changer for the other.

And and and!!! Do Let me know what was your experience of giving or getting a compliment.I would love to hear from you guys.

-Surbhi Bhansali

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