For one that doesn’t give advice, you made the best statements possible.
Those surely are the words of a very wise selfless father ! Your kids are fortunate.
I’m sure they feel blessed.
Also, I think you have given Tiffany Sun something to ponder. I’d say very helpful ( I won’t say advice, since you don’t give it.)
Lets call it thoughts one can elaborate on.
Be well sir . For more reasons than one !