Oh Sh-t! My Experience as a Woman…
Of What Many Men Are Experiencing In The Societal Push-Back — Staying In My Own Lane!
Hey guys, I am getting your experience… in today’s dating environment. And I see you a little bit better! I’m seeing more clearly the position you’re in.
I don’t understand — even remotely — the acrimonious or shaming tones many people are readily using today when responding to anyone who is apparently “ignorant enough” to express a point of view that is opposing their own!
To my way of ‘being’, when someone’s beliefs don’t align with mine, it’s time to get curious, and ask questions. A fertile environment has just been presented for self-reflection, growth, and personal development. Particularly if I’ve been hooked hard enough that my irritation has risen to a level that I now need to de-escalate! …preferably before responding!
It most definitely does not give me the right to be rude or inflammatory about anyone’s expressed opinions, attitudes, viewpoints, or ideas.
