No, probably he hasn’t guessed about the tattoo, unless you already have a lot of them. But to me it’s not weird at all. He might die! How would you handle it? I don’t think a tattoo would be a bad way to keep the feeling of him with you if he died. What’s weird about that? You have to remember, I’ve been in therapy for a year. And I was with this same therapist in the 90s for five years. I’m also twice your age. And still it’s taken me a year to work up to talking about my sexuality in the present tense, and get ready to face Mr. McCormick.