
It’s much better to become interested than interesting.
It was the time in my childhood when I often listened about the friends that mom always said to me, “ beta hmesha achy dost bnana jo end tak sath nebhany waly ho’’
means,
“Before making friends you should think twice either he is a good person or not, should I trust or not, he can bear my bad habits or not, he is selfish or not”.
But the truth is I never listened my mom advice only in this case because I believe , “ Q K HER EK FRIEND ZRORI HOTA HY”
So although most of the time my friends deceived me but still I am with them.
Recently I read “Dale Carnegie Book” and here is some tips I would like to share.
love and care:

If you are a guy having a lot of friends but you don’t care about them than its worthless, It mean you don’t have any friends you should be caring and loving If you are caring and loving in this way you can touch the heart’s of other people and will increase you social circle.
Sacrifice:

Yes, its true everything need sacrifice I will elaborate it in this way; Suppose that you have a quiz tomorrow and you want to win the 1st prise in quiz there will be something you should sacrifice, it may be your favorite television show may be a party with friends
similarly friendship also want sacrifice. A time comes in the friendship when on of the friend should sacrifice. This is the only way to keep your friends close to you forever
A friend in need is a friend indeed:

Here is the best thing that I found in my life. Your friends should be cooperative or in other hand if you are saying that, “Hi ! I am the person who has unlimited friends and you are very happy on it; probably you should be, as you have much more friends but unfortunately when you are in trouble and there is no one in your fried list who is ready to help you than again you just wast your time and you are not good to choose the friends.
So how they will be able to do that; this the main point it only could in such a way; if you are sincere with them. If you are looking all the qualities in them: loving, caring, helping etc then 1st you should have all these then you will get automatically all these in return.
Survey:
Although I really like to meet other people and making new friends but here i will share a few. After reading “Dale Carnegie Book” I did a survey, met a lot of people while I was going to restaurant for my lunch and dinner
Murtaza Khan; A Sales Man

I Met with a stranger and start taking to him; Murtaza was very interested to talk about his life and I asked him a lot of question following the rule; “It’s much better to become interested than interesting”
So here I was interested in him,
I will share some of my questions here. when I asked about his future plans, his reply was shocking for me; “ hum apka khud ka karibar kary ga or logo ko kam py rakhy ga sb se pehly apny BOSS ko ”
mean “i will establish my own business and i will hire laborer and 1st person will be my boss” Right now he is a sales man in a mobile shop and he has wonderful and high thoughts about his future plans.
There were much more interesting question answer too but I am going straight to the conclusion which is he was very happy with full of energy and excitement because someone is willing to know about his life and I am damn sure next time when we will meet at some good place and he will recognize me immediately because he became my friend before I left him. Hope so he will be good businessman in future.
Taha Sajjad; My Friend

The person in yellow shirt is Mr. Taha Sajjad and here in the right it’s me. Unfortunately. :)
So what type of question I asked to my friend. As he is no interest in any kind of productive work he has only one thing; passionate about mobile phones
so I asked him, have you facing any problem these day tell me I will try my best to solve this. He replied, “yaar bus naya phone lena hy or phone change krna hy paisy nahi hein per, bohat tention ho rahi hy bta kya karo”
means “ I want to change my cell phone and really interesting to purchase a new one but I don't have so much money, tell me what should I do.”
So hilarious ( lots of laughter). That was only for fun. What I replied to him; If you really want to get a new i phone 7 than you should work for it other wise your wish will always remain a wish. Hope so he will get it. What I observed when I was talking about his passion and his interest which is Mobile phone obviously then he was continuously smiling and blushing and taking more interest in all over the conversation.
Conclusion:
Life is too short live it with full of happiness and joy. Respect your friends. Try to understand you friends. Give value to others. Spread smiles
In short Live your life for the happiness of others you will be happy too automatically. :)