Yes I never fell in love with my soulmate, I just knew him deeply and loved him completely from the first moment. we are completely harmonious with each other, even our conflicts are part of the energy that keeps us alive and together. I have never taken him for granted for a moment in over 2o yrs, no he me. It is an extraordinary experience and not the flutter and sparks of lust that try to convince us they might be that spark. It was a heart connection not a groin based one, although we have a very well-rounded relationship still lol.