“Man” Rachel? What “man”? I am reading an article by a woman. You seem to be reading a very different article to the one the rest of us are reading! Your concept of femininity is yours and the TERFs. Not mine and not many others who feel as excluded by the oppression of white Western femininity’s insistence on escaping oppressions and power structures which you replicate in your misandry. You echo in your every assertion that no woman who supports transwomen is good, no woman who looks at the nuances is good, that no woman who is not a carbon copy of YOUR version of femininity is good. Women like you cannot even manage to look straight at women like me those who once assumed disabled feminists would be welcomed as if we could be feminists with imperfect bodies or minds or witgh the very dangerous suggestion taht we might actually know more of oppression than white, western 30% less pay- no pay, no kids, no right to kids but ordered to abort and like it because YOU want the _rights_ to abortion that are forced on us as medical assaults. The very idea of a woman who dares to say that your concept of oppression includes anyone who disagrees with you being aggressive and oppressive. TERFism is getting, tired, the arguments dull and overworn. Terfsplaining is not pretty. Don’t do it.