Social Media is destroying our society

“A man is a social animal by his nature". Aristotle

The urge to connect to another is the basic instinct of human being since the existence of life. And now a days it has been converted to social media ,where in the procedure of connection, one looses his identity, character, realism and courage to face reality.

Here are the reasons why is social media destroying the society?

1.World of fake persona

Every one is seems to be presentable, nice and honest at social media. The dilemma of the modern age that new generation is trapping itself in this web happily. They are unable to see the actual difference between word and action. The gut feeling or intuition is a God gifted sense with which every one is blessed.Unfortunatly our youth is obsessed with the quick connection which ends on anxiety and disappointment. Usually you will see a person talking about the quality which is absent in his personality. The fake personality disorder leads many lives into hell.

2.Obsession of Fame

Million followers on social media, the number of likes and fan following; these are the obsessions of modern society. Adultery, boldness and the use of slang language are the production of this obsession. The civilization is started to crumble. Respect, honor and prestige become the myth of vanished past. The absence of ethics and moral values pushes the man again in dark ages where “survival for the fittest” was the slogan.

3.Connection turns on loneliness

The connection with social media ends with emptiness and loneliness. The desire to stick together ,unable to face realities ,sudden goodbye or infidelity are the major causes which normally avoid on the initial stages. Relationship grows when both have intention to grow.

4.Greed to grow

In the greed to compete and get triumph leads to dishonesty ,lie ,and corruption. Earning by hook or by crook, desire of lavish life style and finding the easier ways makes a person selfish, mean and senseless. Sacrifice will be unknown word for the coming generation.

It seems that the real purpose of human being’s creation is fading. Urge to be connected with hollow soul and heart in a desperate environment will gives you nothing except fakeness.

How to over come the problems?

1.Be your, be real.

2.Focus on the actions and behavior rather than words and sugary conversation.

3.Don’t pretend. Stay loyal and seek loyal. Just give time and space. No mask can be worn forever.

4.Face the rejections and move on. Reality is that you deserve better.

5.Limitize yourself and use social media for your work. Stick to your values and the norms you get from your family and surroundings.

6.Believe in your gut feelings and intuitions. If your inner side is alarming about the certain situation, thing or person, trust it.

7.Make strong connection with God. It will prevent you from the bigger disaster.