Another Traumatic Experience

Stephanie Z. Bonder
4 min readJan 18, 2022

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Last weekend began as a peaceful and relaxing Shabbat. We celebrated my daughter’s birthday, and we were looking forward to a relaxing weekend. That expectation was realized until about 3:30 on Saturday afternoon, when we first heard about the hostage situation at Congregation Beth Israel in Colleyville, TX. From that moment on, we were anxiously searching news sites for information on the situation. To be honest, it was not easy to find the information. I got my first success when I looked up Times of Israel and The Jerusalem Post. Eventually, I found reporting on CNN, but not many other mainstream US sites were reporting at that stage of the crisis. (Now, of course, most mainstream media have reported on it.)

As the hostage situation wore on, we learned that four people, including the rabbi, were taken hostage. We learned about how wonderful Rabbi Charlie Cytron-Walker was, beloved by his congregation and by the greater community of Colleyville. He was involved in outreach throughout the Colleyville community and worked to build bridges with the Muslim community specifically. Those efforts at outreach did not stop a terrorist from walking into the synagogue on Shabbat in the guise of a homeless individual seeking shelter, secretly armed and threatening to detonate a bomb if his demands were not met. His demands became known immediately because of the livestream that was running throughout the service and continued for a few hours into the crisis. Livestreams are now common in many synagogues due to the need to use Zoom services to connect their members during the pandemic. Congregants were able to listen to his rant as time passed on Facebook until it was eventually cut off.

The terrorist’s demands were to force the release another terrorist who was convicted and sentenced to 86 years in prison due to her terrorist activities and her connection to the mastermind of the 9/11 terror attack. I do not want to mention her name or provide a platform for her followers to rehash her terrorist resume or hateful beliefs. Let it just be known that she was a rabid antisemite and spewed hatred against the Jewish people. The hostage taker also spewed hatred against the Jewish people. How could FBI Special Agent in Charge Matt DeSarno say, “We do believe from our engagement with this subject that he was singularly focused on one issue, and it was not specifically related to the Jewish community” ? How could this not be related to the Jewish community? He did not walk into a 7-Eleven or Walmart. He chose the closest synagogue to the airport where he landed. We learned he chose that place because he believed “Jews ruled the world” among other conspiracy theories. On Monday, the FBI updated their investigation to conclude that it was specific to the Jewish community.

Antisemitism continues to grow and multiply. We need to continue to build on the security needs of our Jewish community. All synagogues need improved infrastructure and protection. I always thank the security guards at my own synagogue, the Jewish Day School where I taught and sent my children, and at the local JCC and Federation buildings I attend in New Jersey. I appreciate their presence and I work to build positive personal relationships with them letting them know how much I appreciate their support. We must continue to build the infrastructure needed to ensure the safety of our Jewish establishments.

Antisemitic incidents are being reported more frequently and yet they are often not taken seriously. Instances of antisemitism have been on the rise in work and education settings according a study by the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). On a recent panel conducted by the Louis D. Brandeis Center focusing on the increased incidents of antisemitism, it was noted that 65% of Jewish students have reported experiencing antisemitism on campus and 50% of Jewish students have had to change their behaviors to feel safe. If we are living in the United States of America in 2022, we should expect better. This land was built on the basis of freedom and “liberty and justice for all”. The current social environment does not provide that security or justice.

Antisemitism takes on many faces. It comes from the extremist Islamists, the extremist conservatives, and the extremist liberals. It seems that antisemitism makes for the strangest alliances…

So what can we do? We must raise our voices. We must let our government know we demand actions and not just words. Multiple organizations provide methods to reach out to our elected leaders. Hadassah, the Women’s Zionist Organization of America, Inc. HWZOA provides resources to contact your legislators. Signing up for alerts and then using those resources when you see a need to reach out is essential to protecting the Jewish community.

We need to let our police departments know we appreciate their protection and their help. The police in Texas acted quickly to help the Jewish community in Colleyville.

Antisemitism should be a non-partisan issue. It is over 75 years since the end of the Holocaust, and we are facing eerily similar situations today in the US and around the world. We must be vigilant, and we must strive to use the resources we have to protect the Jewish community from hate.

As a National Board Member of Hadassah, I am proud of Hadassah’s co-sponsorship of the Never Again Education Act, which became national law in May, 2020 and funds educational programs on the Holocaust, and of their firm stance and policy statements on antisemitism.

We must be prepared. This could have had a much different ending, so we should be grateful the stand-off ended with the safe rescue of our fellow Jews. Again, we see that this could happen anywhere, Pittsburgh, Poway, Monsey, Jersey City, Colleyville. Will your town be next? Will mine?

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Stephanie Z. Bonder

Stephanie Z. Bonder is an educator and advocate focusing on issues relating to the Jewish community, Israel, and social justice.