Are You in Bed with a Narcissist?

Narcissism, a term derived from the Greek myth of Narcissus, embodies a complex psychological construct that often manifests as an exaggerated sense of self-importance, an insatiable need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. It’s an intriguing paradox that a true narcissist appears impervious to the trials of aging, isolation, or social rejection. This enduring facade is maintained not by reality but by the intricate web of their own perceptions and manipulations.

A true narcissist, by definition, is entrenched in a self-centered world where the notion of growing old, becoming washed up, experiencing solitude, or being unwanted seems antithetical to their existence. Yet, the irony lies in the stark contrast between the perceived self and the reality they often face. As they age, societal standards might cast them as ‘washed up,’ their actions might isolate them, and their behavior might render them unwanted. Nevertheless, the true narcissist doesn’t perceive these as truths. They refuse to accept any narrative that challenges their self-proclaimed grandiosity.

For the narcissist, being alone doesn’t equate to being unwanted. They craft an illusion of choice and independence, spinning solitude into a tale of deliberate isolation, maintaining that they are too superior to need the company of others. This fabricated narrative serves as a shield…