Interested or interesting

Tayyab Amin
Jul 28, 2017 · 2 min read

interested and interesting are completely different approaches.let me tell a story as my friend called me he told me about online earning stuff.this was “Forex trading”. he explained me basic strategies about Forex.it was interesting for me but it was not applicable from my side because i was not interested in it because it was not clicking my mind.

What i have learned from the Book

the book was telling about the Love which you will share with people.they can be friends,relatives,wife,children,parents and even your clients.The sense of insuring someone that you care about them,you want to ensure them that you are their well wisher and when people understood you then they also interested in you as Dale Carnegie said

“You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get people interested in you”.

Dale Carnegie said about Howard Thurston. There was two points about his success :

  1. He knew the Human Nature.he was deeply gone inside the humane manners and their life.even he knew about the physical motoins and gestures which can astonish them.
  2. He was genuine interest in people.he did not have superior knowledge in magic but he knew how to present in same trick in such a a way that people liked more than others.Howard Thurston was not following the traditional presenting skills that other magicians was using.he was acting on his upon technique which as directly affected to humane psyche.

so showing love,passion,care,enthusiasm,the sense of being well wisher towards people really shot at their heart .

What I learned by interacting with people.

i was asking the questions from my friend and when I asked him about his family life that how interesting is his family life.He said

“All brothers are busy in their professional life and we do not have enough time to sit together for sharing our stories,sorrows and problems.if we sit together and have only 30 minutes to sharing i believed that we can solve all our problems our selves.”

i have concluded from his reply that every man needs a other soul for sharing his happiness and sorrows.it really relieves our heart other wise it is like a burden which can not be unloaded lonely.

People cares about their futures but the most important aspect is their family.if someone has supporting family then it is easy to achieve their goals but if somebody have lack in family connections and in interactions then it could be tough to create his road map to success.

At last i want to share something that in this hectic life everybody is running after materialistic life people start forgetting about their loved ones.so respect your younger,older brothers,parents and appreciate you younger when they achieve in their life and help them when they need help.

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