Joseph T C
2 min readOct 19, 2023

#234 👩‍👦 Transforming expressions of Mother’s Love: From Feeding to Health

So, I normally don’t eat after 8 pm. For the last two weeks in Goa, because subscribed to lunch and has fixed timing, I’ve been having one meal in the morning around 7–8am and another at 2 pm, and that’s it. On the days I party, I take Beriberis root to reduce my glucose level in the blood. At home in kerala, five days a week, I used to refuse food when my aunt and family has late dinner, this was the party day.

👩‍👦 A Mother’s Love: From Feeding to Health

In the past, a mental model of mother’s love was often expressed through the desire for her children to be well-fed, looking plump, a tangible and primitive display of affection and marker of fulfilling sole purpose of mother. It was all about ensuring their little ones had enough to eat. Today too, my mother expressed that before she eats, the thought that passes her mind, did we eat. So sending photos of my food has been a thing.

🏋️‍♂️ The Evolution of Care

However, in our ever-evolving mental landscape, the concept of maternal care is undergoing a transformation. Now, mothers are deeply concerned about their children’s health, emphasizing workouts, cholesterol reduction, and managing blood pressure levels. This shift has been triggered by alarming health concerns stemming from overindulgence and unhealthy dietary habits.

đź’Ş A New Model of Love

Today, the new mental model to express love is framed around exercise, workouts, and mindful eating. It’s about ensuring not just physical well-being but also mental and emotional health. This perspective highlights the importance of holistic wellness, fostering a generation of individuals who not only look after their bodies but also cherish their overall health and vitality.